I was inspired to become a therapist by my own experience with therapy when I was an adolescent. My therapist, and the things I learned about myself from that experience shaped who I am as a person and as a therapist. I saw first hand how impactful a positive therapeutic experience can be.
Anxiety, Trauma, Adjustment/Change of Life
The three words that best capture my therapeutic style are friendly, compassionate, and collaborative. I also would add integrative and tailored!
People might be surprised to learn that I am an avid crossfitter and I enjoy lifting weights. It is my way of working through mental and emotional challenges and keeping a clear and calm head.
When helping clients set and achieve goals, I feel it is best to make sure they are clear about what their goals are and what they will look like once they have been achieved. Many people come to therapy with an abstract idea of the improvement they want to make, but I help clients see their goals and the steps towards achieving them more concretely.
I wish I could debunk the old stereotypes about therapy and a traditional therapist. We're not all old and stuffy who want you to lay on a couch and talk about your childhood. That therapy is much more fluid and individualized then some people realize.
Because it is my number 1 self-care strategy, I often recommend exercise to clients. And I encourage them to try different forms of exercise until they find the right one for them. Helping clients realize that exercise, and self-care in general, don't have to look one specific way.
If someone is nervous about starting therapy, the one thing I would tell them is to just come to one session. That they aren't signing up for a lifetime of therapy, just come to one and see how you feel after that. And to be honest with their therapist about feeling nervous, because its ok to be nervous, that doesn't mean there is something wrong.