I’m tired of dieting but what else can I do?

November 22, 2022

What Is Intuitive Eating?

If you are on a journey to learn more about your eating habits, in recovery from an eating disorder, or simply interested in a healthier relationship with food, intuitive eating may be helpful. Diet culture can create an unhealthy cycle of restriction and exercise, often leading to disordered eating or eating disorders. This mindset frames food as transactional—“bad” foods must be earned through dieting or exercise.

Intuitive eating shifts the focus from dieting rules to reconnecting with your body and its signals. It’s an anti-diet approach that encourages mindfulness, self-compassion, and respect for your body’s needs. Your body naturally tells you when it is hungry, thirsty, or satisfied—but diet culture and busy lifestyles can disconnect you from these signals.


Letting Go of Diet Culture

Diet culture emphasizes thinness as the ideal, but people have diverse body shapes, sizes, and nutritional needs. Intuitive eating encourages you to honor your body by responding to its hunger cues and eating until you are satisfied. Dieting often leads to temporary weight loss followed by a return to previous patterns, reinforcing an endless cycle.

Letting go of diet culture involves reflecting on past dieting experiences—how they impacted your emotional state, focus, performance, and happiness. Restricting or labeling foods as “good” or “bad” fosters guilt and an unhealthy relationship with food. Instead, intuitive eating encourages you to feed yourself when hungry and to give yourself permission to enjoy all foods without shame.


Rebuilding a Healthy Relationship With Food

Cravings and overeating often stem from restrictions. Allowing yourself to eat what you want—whether dessert, bread, or other foods—can reduce guilt and break the cycle of “forbidden” foods. Intuitive eating teaches that food is not a coping mechanism; it nourishes your body but cannot solve emotional issues.

This approach requires facing emotional triggers for eating. For example, if you tend to eat when stressed or anxious, intuitive eating encourages awareness and healthier coping strategies. Over time, your relationship with food becomes more balanced and mindful.


Shifting Your Approach to Exercise

Diet culture often pressures exercise as a way to earn food or manage weight. Intuitive eating promotes movement for satisfaction, joy, and the sensations it brings—not as a punishment or obligation. Consider how different forms of movement make you feel: Does yoga help you relax? Does running energize your mind? Does strength training make you feel confident? This mindset helps shift motivation from external expectations to internal enjoyment and wellness.


Final Thoughts

Intuitive eating is a long-term approach that prioritizes listening to your body, respecting your needs, and letting go of diet culture pressures. It allows you to enjoy food, movement, and self-care without guilt, stress, or shame. By fostering a mindful and compassionate approach, you can build a healthier, more sustainable relationship with your body and your eating habits.


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I’m tired of dieting but what else can I do?

If you are someone on a journey to learn more about your eating habits, in recovery from an eating disorder, or someone genuinely interested, this blog will discuss what intuitive eating is. Diet culture can be a difficult approach towards someone’s weight loss goals. It often cycles between restriction and exercise which can put someone at risk to develop disordered eating or an eating disorder. This mindset of a transaction and “bad” food items to be earned through restriction, exercise, or calorie counting can be an unhealthy mindset towards someone’s overall wellbeing. Our body is an amazing tool and vessel. Sometimes we can ignore what it is telling us it may need. Intuitive eating is an approach to shift our focus from what we know, towards a healthier relationship with food. Not one filled with anxiety, stress, guilt, sadness, and shame if we have a donut, or “ate horribly today”. Intuitive eating is an anti-diet approach where you are more mindful and connected with your body as it tells you what it needs. Through this, you learn not to judge yourself or listen to diet culture tones. Our body tells us when it is hungry, when it is thirsty, when it is starving, and what is satisfying.