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Trauma & Love: Supporting a Romantic Partner with A Trauma History

Trauma & Love: Supporting a Romantic Partner with A Trauma History

Being in a relationship with someone who has a trauma history can be uniquely challenging at times. In many cases, individuals who experience trauma may behave in ways that are hard for their partner to understand. They may experience panic attacks, express distrust, escalate quickly to anger, or become disengaged. As trauma can interrupt emotional processing, those who have experienced trauma often struggle to articulate what is really going on inside of them. This can cause conflict and miscommunication, and it can make it difficult for well-intended partners to know what kind of support to provide. If this sounds a bit like your experience, not to fear! There are ways to become a trauma-informed and compassionate partner while also maintaining your own boundaries and safety within your relationship.


Considering Couples Counseling?: Questions to Ask Yourself Beforehand

Considering Couples Counseling?: Questions to Ask Yourself Beforehand

You and your partner have decided to take a big step and consider couples counseling. Perhaps you are both wanting a better connection with one another or you feel stuck in some negative patterns. No matter the reason for seeking counseling, consider these four things before you begin. Here are some tools to help you to prepare and set up the process for success for you and your partner.